If there is something we should be very clear about when we think of a Cancer person, they are very variable and insecure of themselves. They go from a moment of full euphoria to the most remarkable state of depression we have ever seen and this is their greatest weakness and on which they base their entire existence. Therefore, Cancer will look for people who can give them the emotional stability they do not have, as well as the security they lack. This is one of the first and most important aspect that we must take into account when we want to conquer a Cancer. We must show confidence in ourselves, that we have very clear ideas, that we are stable and that we follow a line of action that we do not change every two times.
Cancer seeks people who understand them and, therefore, it will be important that we know how to listen and understand. One of the aspects that most value Cancer is that you listen to them. If we know how to listen to our Cancer, understand him and help him in the moments when he feels low in morals we will have our Cancer by our side forever.
In addition, the patience of Cancer must be taken into account. These are people who seek to do things little by little; everything is in its time and they do not like to run. In this way, to conquer a Cancer, the best we can do is to go little by little; discover your personality slowly in each of the appointments we have with this person and, thus, win your heart.
At the moment we want to declare, there is an aspect to keep in mind that it is crucial to give us the "yes" we are looking for: we can not do it in a striking way. Cancer love the privacy of their lives and do not want or like to be the center of attention at all. Therefore, when you want to declare a Cancer, the best thing you can do is to do it in a place where you are alone and using words that excite you; words with feeling
The key to conquer them is to understand their variable personality and be at their side when they require it. Giving them confidence, security and seeing that the problems of life look different with us is, without a doubt, one of the best ways to attract them to our side.